eye can·dy

/ī ˈkandē/

nounINFORMAL

1. visual images that are attractive and entertaining 

Have you ever heard the phrase, “You eat with your eyes first”? Are you giving your man a look at something he might want to feast on?

Visual stimulus is important. I know you’re thinking your man will probably still want to have sex with you even if you had COVID-19 and were too weak to lift your head, but every now and then, there’s no harm in spicing it up. There are so many ways you can be eye candy for your spouse without even wearing lingerie. Although, I highly recommend it. (I’ll share my favorite site to snag some sexy looks at great prices.)

It can be a little daunting, though, especially if you’re not as comfortable with your body as you used to be. Trust me, I know the feeling! My body has changed many times since we’ve been married. I have some insecurities, but he reminds me often how much he still wants me. I just have to believe it and embrace the skin I’m in. I want my honey to keep thinking I’m sexy, so I highlight my sexy curves and keep working on the ones that need improvement.

So, here are some way to get your eye candy on while keeping it spicy!

Flash Him

When he least expects it, show him some skin. A quick look or a long, lingering glance from across the room is a great way to offer up a little eye candy. Robert is definitely a breast man, and I have plenty to serve. I lean over so he can see down my shirt, I go braless so he can get a good look even through my clothes. Sometimes, I simply flash him. You now what he likes. Now let him see it!

Happy Accidents

Let him “catch you” getting naked or getting dressed while slipping on some sexy undies. I sometimes let him see that I have on something sexy under my clothes without leaving him enough time to act on his naughty thoughts before I have to leave. I know he’ll be thinking about it while I’m gone. Bend over when you know he’s walking into a room. Turn the music up and do a sexy dance in the mirror. Pretend you don’t notice he’s watching for a while. Let your creativity take you away!

Switch It Up

If you’re usually in sweats lounging around the house, try a pair of short shorts and a revealing tank. If you’re going out together, take Beyonce’s advice from time to time and put on that freak’em dress. Athletic wear has taken on a whole new level of cuteness. Ditch those old T-shirts, and let him see you working it out in something form flattering. I love Fabletics and Shein for these items.

“Slip Into Something More Comfortable”

Lingerie is one of the ultimate eye candy items. There is something out there for every comfort level, from robes to crotchless to whips and chains. I like to keep my lingerie collection refreshed about every 3 months to match my mood, my size, and my naughty plans. While I know you’d love to see me in some of my favorite looks, I’ll show you what I’m eyeing on my all time favorite site, Yandy (sounds like candy, so fitting). They have a great plus size selection for us curvy girls, too! Check out my HOT, HOTTER, and HOTTEST picks.

WARNING: Trying these eye candy tips may cause some sweet results!